Give a Man a Blow job

OK so today we're talking about blowjobs! yay! Or as I like to call it The Double Kangaroo Sloppy Pocky. Make sure you spread that term.

Now to get started I feel it's important to know the likes and dislikes of your parter for this will factor into technique later as we go on. So something along the lines of "Honey, you know that thing you like, well I had a few questions for you about it.." If he grumbles or complains just let him know the reasons for asking and I guarantee he'll straighten right up and answer with a twinkle in his eye. ^_~ I realize that not everyone giving or receiving oral sex is in a relationship so I know that asking any questions might give you one of these O.o, so I will also go over just a basic technique so you're in and out of his car in no time. =D

The glans or "head" of the penis, one of the most sensitive parts of the penis

Now depending on the size of said penis there is a bit of stretching of the mouth involved. If you have a small mouth, as I am all too familiar with having one myself, as silly as it sounds some practicing is not a bad idea. Practice inserting anything that's phallic in shape in your mouth; Popsicles, bananas, sex toys, etc. will do nicely. It's like anything, practice makes perfect. The reason I say this is because as well as length, girth, size, and all the other fun different characteristics penises have there's also the factor or orgasm and how long said penis takes to reach orgasm. Basically you can be there for a while and jaws get sore. So doing 'exercises' will allow you to know how much you can take in and for how long. And as with any other part of your body you can tone these muscles and stretch them out to allow longer and deeper access which will very much be appreciated. Don't worry if you cannot continuously keep a large foreign object in your mouth for an extended period of time. Contrary to men's beliefs mouths aren't meant to do that and there are fun little tricks to continue pleasing him as well as give your mouth a rest. ;)

Let's start off with those basics now so you and you're boyfriend can get the hell out of here quickly and get to it.

First thing is to make sure both you and he are in as comfortable a position as possible because you don't want to need to stop and stretch because you're all bunched up and I'm sure he won't want to either. After that make sure that all zippers and metal/sharp objects of any kind are out of the way..please.. Except tongue rings, those are much appreciated in this case. :)

So everyone's comfortable and penis is out of harm, check. Start off by lubricating your lips with a simple lick across them. A good way to do this is to be right at the tip of his head and look up at him while you do. (you can drive a guy crazy like that ^_~) Now start to slowly take the head of the penis into your mouth. And remember to AT ALL TIMES cover your teeth with your lips. Now you don't have to wrap them around as if you were imitating your Nana, but your teeth should not be below your lips when performing oral sex unless you're parter is into kink, but I'll go into that in the advanced portion. (See...don't you wish you weren't in a rush? :P) Now when you're taking the penis into your mouth think about what you'd like on your vagina or penis. Think about how you would like the tongue to move against you and in your best way mimic that. If you have no idea what you'd want circular motions are a good bet. So as you're taking the member into your mouth slide your tongue around it and lick against it as you would a Popsicle. (And you didn't think that practice would come in handy, oh ye of little faith.) Head motion should be something along the lines of a pigeon walking, up and down in a rhythmic pattern. Now if you're mouth is smaller or you're getting tired ways to keep him going and give your mouth a rest are quite simple; a mixed hand job with oral at the tip of the penis will allow your mouth to relax and still bring him closer to orgasm. That wonderfully wet tongue of yours feels great to him so why not use it? Start at the base of his penis near his scrotum and lick up to the head. Now I shouldn't give you this cause you're in a rush but I will anyways cause I'm a nice person. The sweet spot on the penis, the frenlum. This is the key to most men's orgasms as it is pretty much the equivalent of a clitoris. [1]That fun little dip under the head is Mecca. Lick it, suck it, flick your tongue against it..he'll go nuts. Don't over do it though, you don't want to ruin a good thing. So with alternating oral, licking, and jerking you should be able to bring him to climax. Good luck with that. :)

Now as for a more in depth technique:

First off believe it or not men enjoy foreplay. (I know, I was shocked too) So you don't have to just dive right in, you can start off slow and work your way up giving the penis ample time to reach a [2]. Making out is good. I find straddling and grinding a good way to start the blood-a-boilin. Lick his neck, suck his ears, and trail your tongue down his torso kissing and licking along the way. Make him not only want you, but need you. Now if you missed the basics we're going to want all hazardous materials AWAY from the penis. Zippers and the like included. You want him absolutely relaxed and enjoying this and make sure you too are comfortable so you don't need to continue stopping. Now I imagine you know his likes or dislikes which will prove helpful because along with the aforementioned technique there are other things you can do to him.

Scrotum: [3] Many guys like their balls played with. You can be giving a hand job, sucking his head, and playing with his balls all at once. (You're a multi-tasker!) NEVER squeeze them hard unless instructed to do so by your parter. (Remember the kink thing? This is an example.) Cup the balls firmly in your hand where you can control the movement (again not too hard) and use slow and gentle massaging motions with your fingertips. You can also use your thumb to massage the front of the sac while your fingertips surround the rest. Also, some guys like their balls being licked or sucked. Licking would be pretty basic and I trust you're capable so I'll move right on to sucking. Now you're going to want to keep your teeth covered as if you were giving a blowjob because these are just as if not more sensitive as the penis. So suck it softly into your mouth and massage it with your tongue. I suggest starting with one ball to see how much you can handle.

Taint: (couldn't find a picture without getting a virus from porn :P) The taint is the section of skin between the scrotum and rectum. Many guys without even realizing find this part of the body is an erogenous zone. Massaging it with your tongue or fingertips is pleasurable and stimulating.

Rectum: (Do you really need a picture? :|) Depending on what you're both comfortable with there are different things that you can do here. Just rubbing your fingers over the asshole is enough for some guys while others want more. As with anything else you shouldn't do anything you are not comfortable with so don't push yourself. But, there's also fingering. If you're a woman you know that receiving oral sex while being fingered is rather enjoyable, it's can the same in this case. Not all men like this though... make sure you know, because for other men it can be quite bothersome. If your man likes it, then its best to learn whether to use lube or not... this is also just a preference. If you are going to use lube you might as well put that saliva to use. Take your finger into your mouth and make sure to get it nice and saturated and begin to slowly insert it. Again whether or not he likes it slow and steady or fast and rough is up to you to know. Also there's the fact that he may enjoy more than one finger in which case be ready to lube em up. =D Now anal play doesn't stop there, there's also oral that can be performed. Again I reiterate, if you are not comfortable doing it, don't. Start as you would the penis circling your tongue around the opening and then when you feel it's time stick it in. Or if you'd rather just lick the outside that's fine because unless you're Gene Simmons I can't imagine your tongue making quite a large impact in there. XD

Alright so we have all of our variations, now to bring them together. I recommend changing it up a bit to keep him guessing. The same routine will get old and boring and will eventually cause delay in orgasm and possibly a less powerful climax. So you can vary your speeds and techniques depending on your mood and the setting. One day you can take it nice and slow with plenty of foreplay to get him all rilled up while the next you can just throw him down, have at it, and finger-fuck him till he screams your name. =D

Now something I didn't get into was spitting and swallowing. It's really whatever your preference is. Some guys find it insulting if you spit so a way to get around that is make it look hot by sliding it out of your mouth as he's cumming so it drips down your chin and lips. He'll be so turned on by it he won't even notice. If you choose to swallow make sure you clean it all up like a good little boy or girl. Make sure you take care of the messes you make and if your partner is a kinky one be sure to save him a taste. =)

Speaking of kink, I forgot to get into biting. Some guys enjoy their penis bitten a little or run across it. So VERY CAREFULLY let your teeth drop below your gums and slowly glide them across the skin. Be sure to keep an even pressure so you're not causing injury. And as mentioned before when talking of the frenulum, don't overdo it.

So you're sucking his cock, licking his head, playing with his balls, fingering his ass, and massaging his taint and he's about to cum what do you do? Well a good way to finish off is to moan against him as this sends vibrations to his head and the sound of you moaning and enjoying it turns him on and gets him closer. In fact you can moan throughout the act just don't overdo it. (You're not acting, you're sucking cock.) You'll be able to tell when he's about to cum either through his vocalizations or through his anatomy. His balls will get very tight and swell beforehand and his penis will twitch at time of orgasm. Get ready for a flood, cause here it cums. (Teehee double entandre) If you are going to swallow let the first shot go down your throat right away and be prepared cause the big one is usually right after the initial squirt. Make sure you keep sucking/fingering/jerking/massaging while he's orgasming. Don't just stop cause he's cumming, that'd be rude. Once he's done cumming swallow the rest and lick your lips, look up at him, and smile. Now if you can deep throat, this would be the time to do so. If you cannot slide his cock as far into your mouth as it will go without making you gag and suck it back out. He will look at you with his mouth open in awe and thank Bob that he's a man. =)

Congratulations you've just learned to suck cock. Class dismissed.

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